It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Matthew, a beloved father, grandfather, great-grandfather, friend, and pillar of strength, who departed this life on November 21, 2024, at the age of 80. Born to Ira Mae Gordon and Matthew Carlisle Sr. on January 19, 1944, in the close-knit town of Jefferson, Texas, Matthew spent his formative years in a community that shaped his deep sense of commitment, reliability, and love for others.
A proud graduate of Jefferson High School, Matthew answered the call to serve his country by enlisting in the United States Army, where he faithfully served for several years. After completing his military service, Matthew settled in Dallas, Texas, where he embarked on a remarkable 34-year career with General Motors. His hard work, loyalty, and dedication were evident in every aspect of his professional and personal life.
Matthew was more than a hardworking individual; he was the bedrock of his family and an unwavering source of support for his community. His quiet strength and steadfast presence made him a man others could always count on. As a devoted member of Transforming Life Christian Fellowship Church from the very beginning, Matthew exemplified faith in action, offering his time, wisdom, and heart to his church family and beyond. His contributions touched countless lives and will continue to inspire those who knew him.
Above all, Matthew cherished his family. His love, guidance, and enduring patience will be deeply missed but forever treasured by those who were fortunate enough to call him husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, brother, and friend.
Matthew is survived by his wife, Wanda Carlisle; sister, Mary (Al) Choutka; daughters, Abbie (Danny) Daniels, LaSheon Conley, and Ursula Carlisle; son, Roderick (Carleen) Carlisle; honorary daughters, Cynitha (Gence) Johnson, Jackie Caldwell, Tricia Patterson; honorary son, Ken (Tonya) Floyd; grandchildren, Alyssa (Ethan), Christopher, Corey, Courtney, Courtlen (Victoria), Cullen, Daylon, Haven, Katelyn (Ryan), Kierra, LaShivey (Chris), and Paisely (Jonathan); 15 great-grandchildren; as well as a host of extended family, friends, and loved ones who will continue to honor his memory.
A celebration of Matthew’s life will be held at Salem Institutional Baptist Church, 3918 Crozier St, Dallas, TX 75215, on December 12, 2024, at 10:00 am. The family invites all who were touched by his kindness and generosity to join them in remembering the incredible legacy he leaves behind.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Matthew’s memory to Transforming Life Christian Fellowship. Matthew’s journey on earth has ended, but the values he upheld and the love he shared will continue to shine brightly in the lives of those he leaves behind. Rest in peace, dear Matthew, knowing you have made the world a better place.
