There comes a time when your calling ain’t about climbing — it’s about carrying. Big Mama used to say, “Everybody wants the spotlight, but few will stand in the gap and hold the light for somebody else.” That wisdom hits different when you understand the difference between being David and being Jonathan.
Take Victor Glover. When he went to space, he didn’t go alone — not really. He carried generations with him. Every young Black child who had never seen themselves beyond this atmosphere suddenly had permission to dream bigger. That’s David energy — walking boldly into purpose, knowing the world is watching, and stepping into what God has already ordained.
But every David needs a Jonathan.
Jonathan doesn’t need the spotlight — he protects it. He doesn’t fight the anointing — he recognizes it. He doesn’t compete — he covers. And that’s where so many people miss their assignment. Everybody wants to be David, but few are willing to be Jonathan — the one who stands in the gap, who strengthens the vision, who supports the mission without needing the title.
That’s why voices like Noelle LeVeaux matter so much right now. As Dallas prepares for the global stage of FIFA, she’s doing the work of a Jonathan — calling people forward, creating access, making sure diverse voices are not just present, but engaged. She’s not chasing the spotlight — she’s making sure the right people are in position when it shines.
Big Mama would lean back and say, “If God gave you a seat at the table, don’t just eat — make room.” That’s the assignment. Because legacy isn’t built by who gets there first — it’s built by who brings others along.
Standing in the gap means you advocate when it’s uncomfortable. You open doors you didn’t create. You speak names in rooms where silence would be easier. And sometimes, you take hits for people who may never know your sacrifice. But you do it anyway — because purpose ain’t selfish.
So here’s the question Big Mama would ask: Are you trying to be seen… or are you willing to serve?
So here’s the question Big Mama would ask: Who are you bringing with you?
Because legacy isn’t measured by how high you go — it’s measured by how many you lift while you’re climbing.
And we’ve got too much history behind us to walk into the future alone. Email me if you are a Jonathan.
Terry Allen is an NABJ award-winning Journalist, DEI expert, PR professional, and founder of the charity – Vice President at FocusPR, Founder of City Men Cook, and Dallas Chapter President of NBPRS.org
